December 11, San Francisco, CA: I can remember times when I have been shown a mirror. Other people in my life would demonstrate behavior that we had in common, but it was behavior that I didn't like in myself. Too often I would take my frustration out on the other person and wish to be far from them instead of acknowledging the shortcoming in myself. Pretty delusional and very selfish. But at the time it allowed me to not confront myself. I could have lost lots of friends forever. Thankfully, many of those whom I'd judged so harshly have been gracious enough to not return the favor. They may have no idea...it might be time to share.