August 3, San Mateo, CA:I was feeling a bit restless tonight, so I decided to read. And ended up reading about how the things that you judge people for are the traits you are suppressing or not embracing in yourself. I agree. And then the book suggested going through two pages of adjectives, single-spaced, to see which ones would generate an emotional reaction if a close friend said "You are 'fill-in-the-blank.' The author suggests that those are the traits that you do not embrace and may, therefore, project onto others. I didn't make it through the first page. Tough reading, but I will live to read another day. Probably on this week's flight.